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男朋友 and 錢
同男朋友出街時... 看電影, 食飯通常AA, 有時我俾少D. Sometimes 佢付錢先, 我 later pay him back. 佢每次照收, never officially 請我吃飯 (except my birthday... :( ) 有D失望. 生日禮物兩年都無... 我同佢一齊左兩年半了. 我没有出聲, 因為我想佢會主動, 自己識 do la...
我同佢一齊佢對我好好,幾關心我,但li D事情 ...令我感覺不好了...
俾錢事少, 唔係要全包, 但我最介意佢好像連心意都無. 點做好..
I also think that 瑟潭 and godkingking are guys... they totally misunderstood what I was trying to say. It's not about the money or whatever presents. It's the ACT that he is doing.
Re minniemickeytyo & cocywli518 & faifai0325 :
Thanks for the replies, really appreciate it. 首先食飯既問題，firstly corrrect me if I am wrong, I personally don't agree that guys should pay girls all the time.
We are both students (although he is starting to work soon), I understand the constraints we all have. So I think 有時佢比下，有時我比下 or sometimes 請我吃飯 is already good enough.
He doesn't need to pay when I want to buy my own things or while shopping. Although I would be quite happy if he does so haha, but he never does that and I don't expect this from him yet.
食飯事後俾返錢佢actually 係我主動，but 佢又 really 每次照收...Actually from the very beginning when we just started dating, we already AA
I actually dicussed with him about how I don't like AA制 and I am happy to pay for him too but his reply was ''It's my parents and your parents money, I think we better 計足 D."... I was speechless.
Also, he always have very limited amount of money in his wallet. Normally $200 max.?! One time when we pay the bill, I tried to pretend not to pay, then he only took th emoney just enough to pay for himself and look at me (expceting me to pay for myself yet again...). What can I do wor...
About birthday presents, 1st time was becuase his dad was very ill and he was very stressed so I never blame him but he promised to give me something afterwards. After a year, it never happen. 2nd time was becuase it's the deadline of his final project and again
I told him it's ok and yet, this summer holiday is ending and I can't tell that he has been planning to give me anything...?! 佢生日我有送禮物俾佢 ga... I told myself he remembers but he's too buys to buy but it's summer holidays now! :( 好失望
Other than that... he is a really nice guy. I can tell him really loves me but I just don't understand why he wouldn't do the above...
I am sorry for typing English. I hope it's ok as I am in the office :P sorry!
- 小輝輝Lv 51 十年前最愛解答
- GavinLv 51 十年前
你咁問得, 好明顯佢係你心目中已冇其他野可以挑剔啦, 係咪?
而且, 其實你心目中已經幫佢諗左好多好多理由同藉口點解佢會咁做, 只係覺得自己咁樣幫佢諗埋又好似好唔抵咁.
無可否認, 拍拖既時候就係會去自尋煩惱, 不過希望你唔好一個唔小心鑽左牛角尖, 或衝動造出d無法挽回既局面就好喇^^
一個好男人諗野好簡單, 將心比自, 我覺得佢唔會主動做咁多野, 係因為佢希望認定你將來可以係佢「老婆」而唔係「情人」, and that's all.
順帶一提, 我當初同我老婆拍拖既時候, 我做得仲過分過佢好多, 直頭要我老婆俾錢去食飯睇戲, 但係依家既情況係: 我主動將我既所有收入交哂俾佢
I hope you can get what I mean~
- ?Lv 71 十年前
- 1 十年前
錢個問題呢.... 你地係讀緊書定做野先... 如果係讀緊書, 其實大家都無收入, 咁大家想拍拖, 就要一人行一步, 少不免要AA ..
但如果係做野, 都唔應該覺得請食飯, 一定係佢出, 有時要你出, 佢有時又出下... 成日都係其中一方出, 會好無引.... (卑人感覺係"唔通無錢, 就唔拍拖")
生日禮物... 咁佢生日, 你有無送卑佢gar? 都係個句, 雙方都要行第一步, 有時又要有少少暗示呢... 同埋要睇下你要d 咩生日禮物呢...
- 1 十年前
If NOT $ problem and he is 沽韓...
1- suffer it
2- broke up la !!
As a man if there is not $ problem and not spend some $ when go out with you.
2008-08-10 01:50:57 補充：
Don't help to point out any excuses for him la.
Clearly you love him more than he loves you.
You THINK he loves you and cares you NOT the thing I am thinking from your word.
May be he has other gf and need to spend $ on them lei.
Good luck la..
- 匿名1 十年前
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